This Is What The Narcissist Never Thought You Would Do That Makes Them Regret Until They Die 

This is what the narcissist never thought you would do, which makes them regret it until they die. Believe it or not, there are many things narcissists never expected you would do. This article is about the number one thing they never thought you would do.

Let’s revisit your time with the narcissist before I reveal that. What kind of relationship was it, and how did it affect you? How have you changed forever? You entered that relationship with a toxic narcissistic person without knowing what narcissism was, due to a lack of education. You didn’t comprehend the situation; you thought you were simply having a series of bad days, attributing their behavior to personal issues or playing the victim.

You devoted time, money, energy, effort, love, empathy, and status to this unproductive relationship. The narcissist was attempting to puncture holes in your canoe, ensuring it would capsize as you paddled upstream. Why? Because they had another canoe lined up behind yours to jump into once they made sure yours didn’t float.

The narcissistic abusive cycle includes examples like these. It involves a relationship where one person gives everything they can and more, while the other— the narcissist—takes and takes, seeking even more. They ruin everything they touch throughout their lives. People might say, “You’re being a little dramatic,” but my experience shows that narcissists think differently. Unlike you, they do not introspect or hold themselves accountable. Instead of growing, they leech off others, taking what they have, crumpling it like paper when the resources are depleted, and moving on to the next source.

I should mention that the new supply is usually another person. Remember, the narcissist was running from a previous relationship when they came into yours. After getting what they wanted from you, they would shift to another person— someone who lacks education, wisdom, or is a toxic narcissist themselves. This new supply might even be someone from their past, like a former partner or high school friend.

All of these factors contribute to their narcissistic abusive cycle. Keep in mind that the cycle continues; the narcissist is the only constant in it. They realize that their mental state is trapping them. They know their anxiety-ridden life is a trap. They know they wear masks to manipulate people; they sometimes recognize that they’re fake. They want to feel superior to you because of this.

When you left the narcissist, you never knew what to expect. It felt like a planned emotional rollercoaster. What kind of relationship did you have? It was never clear. When you searched online for phrases like “spouse won’t talk to me” or “verbal abuse,” you finally had your breakthrough. Your journey revealed who you would become and what narcissism truly is.

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