Some meetings in this life shake you in ways logic can’t hold, and language can’t fully express. They don’t begin in the mind; they begin in the invisible. In that quiet field where souls recognize each other long before the human self has any idea of what’s going on, your connection with the narcissist was one of those meetings. It felt electric, sacred, and terrifying. It was strong enough to make your common sense feel sleepy, and your intuition feel confused. At times, it felt like you were being pulled toward a cliff; at other times, toward a doorway—one you couldn’t tell was leading to destruction or some strange kind of awakening.
Deep down, though, something old inside you knew. Long before this lifetime and long before this story, your soul said yes to a path that would require unusual courage—not just the courage to face someone else’s darkness, but the courage to face your own. So, life placed a wounded soul in your orbit: a soul ruled by an unhealed shadow—the narcissist. This was not an accident; it wasn’t a random mistake. It was an energetic appointment, a soul contract, as many spiritual traditions call it—a meeting written in a place beyond memory.
You were still pure essence, untouched by the stories of this world. You came here to remember who you really are, and to do that, some old buried part of you needed to be shaken awake.
Reason One: They reflect the wound you forgot and make you face yourself. It wasn’t a coincidence that you were drawn to the narcissist; it wasn’t just charm, timing, or the perfect words at the perfect moment. That was the surface. The truth lies much deeper. The narcissist touched a wound you had wrapped in silence for years. When that intense gaze first landed on you—with fascination and admiration—you felt something stir within you. You felt chosen. You felt special. You felt seen in a way your heart had been craving for a very long time. But that gaze wasn’t truly about you; it was aimed at anyone who could reflect the ideal image the narcissist desperately wanted to see.
7 Gifts Narcissists Give that are Actually Insults
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