In a narcissist’s crazy, delusional head,
they think they know everything—there’s nothing hidden.
They have no questions they can’t answer. They dip their toes in everything. They jump in to talk about subjects they hardly know anything about. And they’ll debate—over and over—giving you justifications that are purely nonsensical, making absolutely no sense. But to them, it makes sense.
They are a Jack of all trades, but master of none—because there are some things they can never answer. There are some things hidden from them, and that is what we’re going to talk about in today’s episode.
1. Why do you act so nicely in front of strangers?
A narcissist puts on a mask. You know they put up a front—a facade. A facade is activated whenever they are interacting with somebody who is a possible target for their narcissistic supply.
So if you were to ask them, “Why do you do this? Why do you act differently?” they won’t have an answer. They won’t tell you the truth—because the truth is, “I can fool them. I can manipulate them into thinking I’m the nicest person they have ever met.”
That means they can adore me. They can admire me. They can see me differently than who I really am—because I don’t like my own reality.
You get to see my real side because I know you’re trapped. You won’t leave me easily. Or I have kept you under my thumb. You’re under my control, so I’ll show you my “nice” side—not the not-so-nice side.
But to them, they have to be this person.
2. If you hate me so much, why don’t you leave me?
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